5 tips to be confident as a modern girl
I'm pretty sure that almost every girl has once in her life asked herself how to be more confident. It may happen when the girl is about to have a date, an interview, or just simple as going out.
Why does every girl needs to build self-confidence? The answer that I absolutely agree is that confidence increases your self-worth, confidence allows you to stand up for yourself, confidence makes you live a joyful life.
I know that many of the girls in this world are happy and successful and each of them choose their own way to be confident. However, in this post, I will just talk about the small simple tips which are the first steps of all those girls on the way achieving happiness and succeed.
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| 5 tips to be confident as a modern girl |
1. Be healthy
There is a quote that inspires me much: "If you want to be loved by someone, you must love yourself first". And the first step to love yourself is to take good care of yourself. So my first tip is to stay healthy.
Here is my rules that I make myself to remember all the time:
- Eat enough food every day, don't skip meals;
- Don't forget to eat lots of vegetables and fruits;
- Engage in physical activity and practice everyday.
As you can see, there are not too many things to remember, but it's difficult to implement. However, it is undeniable that health is everything. You can not study well, make a lot of money or be beautiful unless you are healthy. So let's stay healthy together.
If you are too busy or do not want to practice outside, practicing indoors at home is also a solution. You can find out more about my article: 3 simple way to practice at home for girls to increase resistance and prevent disease.
If you are too busy or do not want to practice outside, practicing indoors at home is also a solution. You can find out more about my article: 3 simple way to practice at home for girls to increase resistance and prevent disease.
I'm sure that healthy must be the first step to be confident even you are a modern girl or not.
2. Be beautiful
We are women. Beauty is the thing that only women have, and men don't. It's a waste if we don't take this advantage and make it better and better.
Each girl is born with a unique beauty. We don't need to be like anyone.
All we need is just to take care of ourself, that's the reason why at least we should have our own skincare routine. (You can read about my skincare routine for busy office girls here).
Besides, if we have disadvantage, conceal it. If we have advantage, show it. That's also the reason why we should make up a little bit. (You can read about 10 silly reasons of mine to make up here).
Moreover, each of us has our own job, our own personality, our own relations. So do not dress up too excessively. You can choose the most comfortable and suitable outfits that make you feel like yourself and still show the respect to the people around you.
There's one thing I always convince to myself: never be too busy to be beautiful!
3. Be smart, brave and strong
In the ancient time, in some places, women were not allowed to study or to make money. Especially in the ancient Asian culture, the obligation of women was just to stay at home doing household and not doing anything else because feudal men said that women were stupid and weak.
But now, everything has been changed. Day by day, we are more respected. But in order to get respected, we must be smart, brave and trong by ourself.
Being smart does not mean that you must study well and get high mark at school. Being brave does not mean that you must put yourself into dangerous situations, being strong does not mean that you must shoulder the work beyond your strength.
Each of us has our own aptitude, so let's focus on it, study it, gain more knowledge about it, face the difficulty of it, get over it and turn it into our pride.
Every girl can become a doctor, a lawyer, an architect, an astronaut or even a super hero. Do you know Captain Marvel or Wonder Woman? I believe that they make movies about these smart female superheroes because they believe that women can also be so smart, brave and strong.
Please remember that you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think!
4. Be independent
In this life, we need to learn from others, rely on help from others, and listen to the advice of others. But we ourselves should be assertive girls. We should be independent in thinking, independent in work and be independent in finance.
In order to be successful and respected, it's essential that a modern girl must be able to make decision of her own, have her own career, her own passion, her own money. That's your life, so the one who do it must be you. Do not let anyone else do it instead of yourself.
5. Be yourself
Finally, the most importance is to be yourself.
You may make up and dress up like a princess, but you will not be happy if deep down inside you don't want to live as a princess.
I know that each of you have your own personality. You don't need to become someone else. Just need to know who you are, know your self-worth value and be yourself.
These 5 tips to be confident may look simple, but the difficulty is in the practice. However, no matter how hard it is, I believe that we can do it, we can do our best to become a confident girl in this modern life.
Thank you for reading and please share you thought by leaving your comments below.
Love you all, girls!
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